Move On

 You too find it difficult in moving on right? I find moving on a good thing for myself. The next time you come in a relation of any kind let i be a friendship or your parents siblings or relationship with your partner, you can easily find out the things which your previous relationship made it end and make you think that this one would end up like that too, so you try to go slow and prefer not to make the same the mistakes like the last one. But some of the people find it difficult and nearly destroy themselves for someone who doesn't even think of them once, for them, they are stuck there at that moment only whereas you need to be like  time, whatever happens you need to keep moving on regardless of how you feel for whom you feel. If the other person could live happily after all the shit between the two why the hell do you suffer then? Why don't we think of those days as happy days which will now happen with someone else? Half of the people in love right now would somehow either end up into arranged marriages or will not marry. Why do you care then if the person you love just left you? You were happy when they weren't there, you have been happy since your childhood. Why make your young life unhappy with nothing to remember in your adulthood by thinking of useless things when you know they will happen again but with someone else? Why become a hollow person when you can be filled with joy? You think you are alone but just think of this question, Didn't you leave talking to everyone for that one person? And now that person is the one talking to everyone else but not you and you are making yourself empty from inside instead of trying and becoming the old you. Everyone is alone right now, and everyone needs somebody. Some need more than one person, not only your best friend or your partner, you also need a person with whom you can share everything like they would just solve everything and just bring joy to you. Not only everyone needs a person to love but everyone also needs someone who can hear them out patiently and tell them Bhai tu Chutiya jo tu ye kar raha hai! Someone who can lift their mood without songs, someone who could make them laugh without sharing memes and someone who could make them feel better by telling them everything will be fine instead of acting cute and cheesy. And when you are all alone, find that one person who could take all your sorrows and fill you with love and light which everyone of us deserve!

From what I think, thinking that the time spent with that person was your past and you would somehow  spend the same moments in the future but only with someone else. There are memories which you can't forget but you can imagine making them better with your next person. Just like Kabir in Dear Zindagi explains, that you don't like the first chair you try on, the same is  with people, you can't hold on to one person for forever and if you do, you don't explore the world and yourself, you just roam in the world formed between the two. But where on the other hand, you can meet other people and find out with whom you fit well. Some of the people get attached to the other person, personally what I think is that you should never let yourself get attached to someone,  because what I feel is that each and every person you meet surely goes away from you and getting attached to them brings pain when they leave. I prefer to be close to people and not get attached. In the end I would just say, if there are bad days going on right now, the good ones are on their way, wait for them, you will be the happiest person on the Earth soon!